Be romantic
today
I HAD AN AFFAIR BECAUSE THERE WAS
NO ROMANCE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP.
I have heard this one a million
times or more. With so many couples
running hectic life's today it is
not surprising that there is very
little romance in relationships.
Romance isn't just about going out
to a posh restaurant, or a dozen
red roses, but a relationship does
need romance to survive. Our life's
run in a routinely pattern, we get
up, shower, go to work, take care
of the kids, spend time with friends,
and so on then go to bed.
On average we spend 10 hours a day
with our partner, at least 7 of
those sleeping. So how can we make
time for romance as well as everything
else that needs taking care of?
Don`t fret it can be done.
It started with a kiss
As soon as you wake up give your
loved one a kiss and tell them how
much you love them. Then before
he/she leaves for work give him/her
another kiss. This will make them
feel good all day and will let them
know how much you love them.
Give him/her a call
How long does it take to say "I
love you"? A second. Even the
high flying executive can afford
to take a second out of their day
and it is a second worth using.
Phone him/her and tell them that
you love them and have being thinking
about them all day. The two of you
will feel loved and will look forward
to
seeing each other
Flowers
On your way home stop at the local
park and pick a few flowers. Most
people would go out and buy a bunch
but I personally think that it is
more romantic to pick them. It shows
how much thought and work went in
to getting them. Then when she greets
you give her them.
Wait for him/her
If you are home first, be waiting
at the door for him/her and greet
him/her with a kiss and cuddle.
A surprise cuddle
When he/she is sitting doing what
ever it is they do sit beside them
and give them a cuddle. You could
rent a film and snuggle up together
for the night. (Go on forget the
housework it will still be there
tomorrow.)
A meal for two
If you are the one that rarely does
the cooking in your house, surprise
her with a candlelit dinner for
two.
A bath together
Run a bath ready for when your loved
one comes home from work and join
him/her.
These are just a few ideas to help
you out. Remember a kiss and a cuddle
is just as romantic as being wined
and dined. But spending an evening
out is also needed at least once
a month.